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Question: hi..i recently got married....my penis limps just before intercourse or say dont stay erect for long as desired..i never had problem in masturbation...i am from XXXXXXX ..any medication i should take..i am 28 years old..
Brief Answer:
No medicine needed at present, relax and go ahead
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing to us.
Many newly married couple face sexual problem initially. Male partner usually becomes apprehensive in such cases. He is anxious about his success and satisfaction of his partner. In thinking of he would succeed or not, he loses the sex excitement and faces erection problem.
When he goes for sex without any anxiety and thinking of success and tries to enjoy, he succeeds easily in most of the cases.
You are recently married and 28 years old.You had no problem in masturbation. Considering these aspects you may not have any significant problem likely.
Your performance anxiety is mostly causing erection problem. Just relax, go for sex without any thought of success of sex. Enjoy foreplay and romance. During this enjoyment you will be successful easily."Practice makes the man perfect" is true also in sex performance.
To comment more about your problem, I need more information.
When did you marry? How many times did you try sex until now after marriage? How many times did you have successful and satisfactory intercourse?
Have you any experience of sexual intercourse before marriage? Please provide detail if yes.
Do you have any habit of smoking, alcohol or tobacco chewing?
Do you have any physical problem?
Is there any stress, social or occupation, right now do you have?
Waiting for your reply to help you.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
No medicine needed at present, relax and go ahead
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing to us.
Many newly married couple face sexual problem initially. Male partner usually becomes apprehensive in such cases. He is anxious about his success and satisfaction of his partner. In thinking of he would succeed or not, he loses the sex excitement and faces erection problem.
When he goes for sex without any anxiety and thinking of success and tries to enjoy, he succeeds easily in most of the cases.
You are recently married and 28 years old.You had no problem in masturbation. Considering these aspects you may not have any significant problem likely.
Your performance anxiety is mostly causing erection problem. Just relax, go for sex without any thought of success of sex. Enjoy foreplay and romance. During this enjoyment you will be successful easily."Practice makes the man perfect" is true also in sex performance.
To comment more about your problem, I need more information.
When did you marry? How many times did you try sex until now after marriage? How many times did you have successful and satisfactory intercourse?
Have you any experience of sexual intercourse before marriage? Please provide detail if yes.
Do you have any habit of smoking, alcohol or tobacco chewing?
Do you have any physical problem?
Is there any stress, social or occupation, right now do you have?
Waiting for your reply to help you.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju
ok. Thanks...its been 2 months i am married..have tried it few times..only once of intercourse or twice got near success when she started having pain and i left..no prior experience of intercourse...no physical problem...i drink occassionally..as such no habit....usual day life stress...nothing specific...any medicine as sos if problem persists
Brief Answer:
No physical problem likely,couple sex counselling would be helpful
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for follow up and sorry for delayed reply.
From history it seems that you do not have any physical problem which is causing sexual problem. Problem is more situational and psychological.
It seems that your wife has some problem and she feels pain. This pain is causing disturbance in sex.
Sex is act of two.For successful sex both partner should enjoy the process.If any one of them gets disturbed, it affects the process. When your wife feels pain , your mind diverted to her pain rather than excitement of sex and your penis limps.
Normally initial two or three times of successful sex attempt, until hymen broken out completely,female feels pain. If she is not able to tolerate the pain, she can take over the counter pain killer medicine like diclofenac before 3-4 hours of sex.If still problem persists, evaluation of her is needed.
You do not have any prior experience. If two months already has been passed without successful attempt,you should consult psychiatrist/sexologist with wife.After detail history of your problem as well regarding pain of your wife, counseling regarding problem and detail information of sex will help you to sort out the issue. If doctor finds something which needs to be treated with medicine then only medicine is needed. I do not think that you are in need of any medicine at present.
Hope this answers your query, I will be glad to answer more.
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No physical problem likely,couple sex counselling would be helpful
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for follow up and sorry for delayed reply.
From history it seems that you do not have any physical problem which is causing sexual problem. Problem is more situational and psychological.
It seems that your wife has some problem and she feels pain. This pain is causing disturbance in sex.
Sex is act of two.For successful sex both partner should enjoy the process.If any one of them gets disturbed, it affects the process. When your wife feels pain , your mind diverted to her pain rather than excitement of sex and your penis limps.
Normally initial two or three times of successful sex attempt, until hymen broken out completely,female feels pain. If she is not able to tolerate the pain, she can take over the counter pain killer medicine like diclofenac before 3-4 hours of sex.If still problem persists, evaluation of her is needed.
You do not have any prior experience. If two months already has been passed without successful attempt,you should consult psychiatrist/sexologist with wife.After detail history of your problem as well regarding pain of your wife, counseling regarding problem and detail information of sex will help you to sort out the issue. If doctor finds something which needs to be treated with medicine then only medicine is needed. I do not think that you are in need of any medicine at present.
Hope this answers your query, I will be glad to answer more.
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju
thanks..yeah...i kw...it might be psychological and have started hampering my performance....so only need medicine only for once to get it done to regain confidence...if you can suggest any to take prior to sex...does these kind of medicines have side effects?...or any medicine in ayurveda which you recommend just to increase strength and stay hard for long...might be i am thinking too much...
Brief Answer:
Yes, you are thinking too much but it is ok, relax and see detail answer.
Detailed Answer:
Hello young man,
At least you have understood and somewhat accepted that your problem is not physical. Though you are thinking too much, your concern is totally genuine on your part. I can understand the same.
If I were your treating doctor, I still would like to take history in detail with your wife. After that I would suggest some measures to improve your sex life without any medicines. However in case if your wife is not ready to come and you insist for treatment in form of ayurveda medicines, I would suggest tentex royal to take. It is herbal product and no side effects in general. Two capsules to be taken after dinner daily. It is available over the counter mostly.
In my opinion, still you should wait for sometime before going for medicines. Better to take medicines after doctor's consultation in personal. 5-PDE inhibitor group of medicines are quite useful.They are allopathic medicines and to be taken after doctor's prescription as it may cause some side effects.
Hope I have answered your query. If still any query there, I will be happy to answer.
If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback so I can improve service.
In future you can contact me directly if you wish with this link: http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
All the best and happy married life.
Yes, you are thinking too much but it is ok, relax and see detail answer.
Detailed Answer:
Hello young man,
At least you have understood and somewhat accepted that your problem is not physical. Though you are thinking too much, your concern is totally genuine on your part. I can understand the same.
If I were your treating doctor, I still would like to take history in detail with your wife. After that I would suggest some measures to improve your sex life without any medicines. However in case if your wife is not ready to come and you insist for treatment in form of ayurveda medicines, I would suggest tentex royal to take. It is herbal product and no side effects in general. Two capsules to be taken after dinner daily. It is available over the counter mostly.
In my opinion, still you should wait for sometime before going for medicines. Better to take medicines after doctor's consultation in personal. 5-PDE inhibitor group of medicines are quite useful.They are allopathic medicines and to be taken after doctor's prescription as it may cause some side effects.
Hope I have answered your query. If still any query there, I will be happy to answer.
If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback so I can improve service.
In future you can contact me directly if you wish with this link: http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
All the best and happy married life.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Ashwin Bhandari
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