Suggest Treatment For Primary Vaginismus With Low Sex Drive And Libido

Posted on Tue, 21 Mar 2017

Question: I am suffering from primary vaginismus.Intercourse is not possible .I have consulted psychiatrist she gave couple counselling and asked to practice dilation with fingers, kegel relaxation till i can become.comfortable with intercourse. I also lack desire during love making.The dilation technique did not went successful and my husband gave up on me before the entire process can be conpleted.With great diffculty only once insertion of index finger uptill one inch became possible.Later on I could not continue it for 2- 3 times and my partner gave up
to continue.Kindly suggest if this therapy can be provided by a female sexologist in XXXXXXX As self treatment is difficult.Also I have consulted one homeopaethic doctor who said that she can help.with.medicines for bringing back.desire as well as to overcome vaginismus.Is that possible?

Answered by Dr. Dr. Rakhi Tayal (46 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Homeopathic treatment can help.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for trusting us with your health concern.

Having a very low sex drive and libido at young age is not expected but it is a common occurrence in case of women. It can be due to the psychological make up of a female or may have some organic causes behind it like vaginismus.

It is best to take the help of your partner for dilatation. There are no such special clinics to help you. Prolonged foreplay including stimulation of the clitoris by your partner with fingers or the tongue could do the trick.

Homeopathic medicines can increase the libido but are less likely to help in vaginismus. You can try the treatment and see if it helps.

Please feel free to discuss further. I will be glad to answer the follow up queries that you have.
Wishing you good health.
Regards.
Dr. Rakhi Tayal.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj

Follow up: Dr. Dr. Rakhi Tayal (25 hours later)

I want to know if there is any female sexologist or sex therapy expert available from XXXXXXX for vaginismus.As we cannot go as per instructions frm my psychiatrist on our own, As my husband is not understanding enough that it will be gradual procedure which wont go smoothly .So plz provide details of any such lady professional expert who can help.

Answered by Dr. Dr. Rakhi Tayal (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
No such expert available.

Detailed Answer:
Hello.
Thanks for writing again.

Any such female sexologist is not available as per my knowledge. If your husband is not so cooperative then it is best to try it yourself and start with masturbation.

Hope my answer is helpful. Feel free to ask further.
Do accept my answer in case there are no further queries.
Regards.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Arnab Banerjee