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Suggest Treatment For Severe Anxiety

Posted on Sat, 19 Mar 2016

Question: Dr Seikhoo Bishnoi please...we had a bad event happen at the temple in which a friend of ours was thrown out and they called the police on a man from Germany whom we ha befriended. He told me he wouldn't join in my pity party and said I was a whiner and complainer. He wanted me to stand up and just claim XXXXXXX but I am not sure i can just do that. XXXXXXX wants to see him and as much as I want to I am afraid of the rejection. I am so anxious I can barely breathe as XXXXXXX is going to go up to the store in four weeks or so...I can't seem to relax at all about anything...my rabbi friend said let XXXXXXX do it if he wants but I should stay out of it...I am not sure what to do..part of me wants to go with him but the other part of me is afraid. She said it can take three years for the chemical reaction of me with XXXXXXX to renormalize. I wondered what you thought about me going up there with XXXXXXX ..will it be safe could he hurt me or us? i just don't know....I just know i am miserable without him and don't know how to keep hanging on...I want to take all of my pills to get rid of the sorrow an the anxiety...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Don't be afraid of trying

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

In my opinion you can go with XXXXXXX and there would not be any problem, but only after injunction ends. Please keep this thing in mind. Apart from this you can send XXXXXXX alone also. Both these should result in positive thing. Don't be afraid of trying. Let's hope good thing happens.

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Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (12 hours later)

Thank you for your response. I am not sure but why don't you think after he has done all of these bad things to me XXXXXXX won't throw me out of his store? He has done such damage to me that the fear I have in being hurt again by him is overwhelming. Is it the fact that i emailed him too much that caused him to file the injunction against me? With the PTSD the trauma has been overwhelming due to court and police involvement. XXXXXXX loves him more than he loves his own Dad which has hurt XXXXXXX but it can't be helped. XXXXXXX was kind and gentle with XXXXXXX and helped him with his college math problems in a gentle helpful way and was always kind until he got psychotic then he called him an autistic stalker which hurt XXXXXXX very much.

I am not sure how to use that direct link but will try it next time. I am doing better today not so much anxiety. they put me on zyprexa which I take twice a day. I use the zanax at night with the remeron and on zyprexa and another zyprexa in the afternoon when the anxiety gets to be too much for me...when I sleep better I am not as anxious...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (19 hours later)

Brief Answer: XXXXXXX can go there once injunction ends

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

He would not behave badly because he distanced himself because he developed delusions that he might harm you. He never wanted harm for you. I am saying this based upon our old conversations.

So when injunction ends you can send XXXXXXX to his place.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)

I saw a therapist today first time in almost two years and he said the same thing that I should send XXXXXXX up to see him.. XXXXXXX wants to do it anyway and we shall see where he is at mentally, XXXXXXX I mean. If he chases XXXXXXX out of the store he will just call the police and they will take him to the mental hospital...it will be because XXXXXXX will not have done anything wrong. The therapist XXXXXXX said that he agrees with you that XXXXXXX cared about me and did not want to harm me which is why he filed the injunction...he can work with me I hope for free every week so i can keep you posted...I still have problems with the anxiety though that is driving me crazy...hopefully the olanzapine will help me with that.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (3 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Olnzapine can help.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Yes you can continue to visit a therapist. Send XXXXXXX to Michael's place only after injunction ends. Olanzapine in low dose might help in reducing stress and anxiety but the drug might cause weight gain and metabolic side effects. So you should start the drug only after getting properly evaluated and with prescription only.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Sonia Raina

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

I did get evaluated and have a prescription.Ugh... Weight gain..I am afraid this friend of mine will visit XXXXXXX and talk to him about me. That could cause trouble because this is a small town. I told him not to talk to XXXXXXX until the end of the month but I don't want him to talk to him about me...I want XXXXXXX to have less stress not more...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (12 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Don't anticipate the things.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Don't anticipate the things. The injunction is ending and you can send XXXXXXX to his place. He can check if XXXXXXX is coming to store. Try not to over think and over analyse the things. Just remain relaxed and wait for the injunction to end. Your friend would not say anything to XXXXXXX and even if she says this wouldn't increase the problems. I don't think that would make any difference.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (31 minutes later)

I am having bad dreams again night terrors actually. Can zyprexa cause that? I am hoping not as I need that...

My friend is a man and he would just talk to him about the Lord and God all stuff XXXXXXX loves...every day I wake up with anxiety and today my back was hurting really bad too...the mornings and early afternoons are the worst. Not sure how to get over that anxiety or chronic worrying about things. Being without XXXXXXX makes it worse and we are not having much success finding a place to live together...it is so hard not having XXXXXXX with me and only seeing him once or at most twice a week...his dad was making a big thing out of him coming to see me with his truck again....but XXXXXXX is an untreated bipolar an that makes it harder

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (56 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Zyprexa might cause bad dreams.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Zyprexa might cause weird dreams in some persons but the side effect is usually seen during start of therapy. Wait for few days and this will help in reduction of anxiety and will help in sound refreshing sleep.

I am sorry I didn't know about your friend.

Wait for some time and you will find a decent place to live with XXXXXXX and then your suffering will decrease. But don't let your health deteriorate again.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Naveen Kumar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (2 hours later)

I am just so anxious about my entire ife XXXXXXX sleeps until three or four in the afternoon. I am just so afraid I will never see XXXXXXX again and we will never get to Israel. I am still trying to get the refund money back and I also am afraid I wil never see XXXXXXX again....I worry about everything money, XXXXXXX Israel not living with XXXXXXX the whole shlock. Anyway thanks for being there for me..

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (6 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Please remain hopeful.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

I know its difficult but some of these will stay and you have to accept the problems. You have to accept the illness of XXXXXXX The financial problems can be corrected but that would take some time. With time XXXXXXX will start improving and finances will improve. Just remain hopeful.

Thanks.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Sonia Raina