
Suggest Ways To Confront Suspicious Behavior And Paranoia

always stay hopeful.
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Hello
Welcome to HCM.
I have gone through all your details, the situations which you have described here in your query.
I really feel for you. Its unfortunate that he filled injunctions against you.
After reading your query, It appears the he also feels for you, cares for you.
May be his illness is making him paranoid against you.
The guy who once so genuine and true, can not turn against you all of sudden.
I believe its not him but his illness which is responsible for such behaviour.
You mention that there is no one to care for him other than you. You have selflessly and truly loved him. I strongly believe in the notion that love begets love.
There may be conflicts, confusions and misunderstandings between you two, but the love will prevail.
See, there are good and bad phases. He would someday realize how living and caring you have been to him. There would be no injunctions after that.
You want to end your life. Dear, I would urge youto stay alive to see him change. Why would you not want to see him love you once again? If you would end your life, how would you get to feel his love again for you?
Youhave to live to see the good times again.
I think you should give him and yourself some time.
Your love is selfless. You care for him. You must pray for him.
It would be a sort of selfishness to kill your self. You need to live for him atleast, in the hope of getting him back.
Hope you find my response of some help.
I wish I could be there to help you in these difficult times. I assure you to provide all possible help here. You can contact me anytime if you wish to. I shall be more than happy to help.
Hope to hear from you again.
Take care.
Regards.
Dr. Shubham Mehta, MD.


I don't understand why if he still loves me he would want me to stay away from him by the injunction unless could it be that he is still afraid that something bad might happen to me if he is with me...he has this way out belief that he is cursed and that all the people he loves will die including me but even when the judge and his lawyer thought he might be willing to have the injunction dismissed because I was moving to Israel he still didn't have it dismissed and he is the only one who can do it...
he may not be having insight at present.
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Sorry for the late response dear.
I will be glad if I could be of any help to you.
You can approach me anytime if you wish to share and discuss anything.
I will always be true and honest and just keep buttering and telling what you want to hear. I think that would be the right thing to do. Isn't it?
Its difficult to forget a person whom you love to such extent. Its easy for a third person to say 'forget him'. But I can understand it is painful and impossible to do so.
'No insight' means that the person does not understand and accept his illness. Abd paranoid schizophrenia is such a bad illness that the person can develop paranoia for anyone around him, keeping aside all the relationships.
Till he is in this phase of illness, the more you will try to approach him, the more paranoid he will become. You breached the restrain by emailing him and he blocked you. Your such acts will make him more paranoid against you.
I know you are desparate for his love (a pure romantic relationship) but I feel for him too.
Although he is not doing right by filing injunctions against you, he might still be unaware of his acts with the beliefs that you are against him.
So, I request you to not breach the law again. If you do so, you will intensify his beliefs againt you.
My words may be harsh sometimes, but I would suggest you to please do not commit such an act against law. This will be good for you, him abd your relationship for now.
You have strong faith in god. I feel that god never does injustice to his followers. The rewards may be delayed, but he gives everyone what he really deserves. This might be a testing time for you and your love,but I am sure god is watching and has reserved his best for you in future.
I agree with Dr. XXXX.
Probably XXXXXXX might not have insights about his actions at present.
But hope for the best always.
Hope I am able to put my suggestions clearly.
Be assured that I am here to listen to you.
You can directly contact whenever you wish to. I would be happy to see you happy.
Take care.
Regards.


How do O get past the sadness? I feel like therr id something wrong with me that he no longer wants to see me. He doesn't treat the woman who workd for him this way? But if he did she would just quit. I dont know how to get over being so sad..nothing helps
take a break, wait and best will happen soon.
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Yes, my sincere suggestion would be that you should try to stay away from him till the injunction is finished or till his paranoia for you is gone and he takes back his injunction.
The reason for this is:
The more you try to approach him, the more legal complications would arise for you.
More than that, his paranoia might get stronger.
He might thus completely avoid and ignore you and you will then feel more sad and frustrated.
This will then become a vicious cycle.
I request you to take a break from this.
It does not, at all, means that you should forget him. Just give some time to him and yourself.
Can not comment on the exact duration of these phases,but I wish and hope that this phase should end at the earliest for you.
Hearing weird voices, blaming and blocking you suggests that his illness must have relapsed. And due to this he has become suspicious for you and everyone around.
Unfortunate for you, I should say.
In my opinion, the best to get over it is to stay away from it for the time being.
I know this phase of sadness is tough to deal with. The best to be happy would to remember the great times you have had with him. Those memories you should cherish, With the hope that everything will get back to normal soon.
Take care.
Hope to hear from you again.
Regards.

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