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Suggest Ways To Extend Duration Of Ajaculation

Posted on Sat, 6 Dec 2014

Question: i want to extend my ejaculation time as my partner is unhappy. what should i do

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (19 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Premature Ejaculation.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for your query.

Based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have are suffering with premature ejaculation

I shall be happy if you can post me few more details to help me in making comments on your problem.
1) How long you can perform the sex ?
2) Do you ejaculate within one minute of penetration of vagina ?
3) Do you have any illness especially Diabetes or Hypertension (High B.P.)?

In majority of patients in absence of any major health issue, Premature Ejaculation is mind related and due to Performance anxiety. Following measure will help you to boost up your confidence and getting good erection and delay ejaculation.
1) Practice regular exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 an hour in the morning.
2) Take high protein diet rich in vegetables and fruits and Vitamin A,C,D,E and Zinc
3) Take anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday..
4) Avoid alcohol and smoking..

Taking Sildenafil (Viagra) as on demand will help to get good hard sustainable erection and to have enjoyable sex. Discuss regarding this with your doctor after having complete physical examination.

Discuss the problem with your wife as her co operation is equally important to resolve this problem Both of you consult qualified Sexologist to modify sex techniques like start and stop technique or squeeze technique. This will help to delay ejaculation.

Hope I have answered your query. Please feel free to write if you have more questions I shall be happy to help you .

Thanks and Regards .
Dr.Patil.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Ashwin Bhandari

Follow up: Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (39 minutes later)

Hi,

1) How long you can perform the sex ? I have never timed it unfortunately. Normally first time is quicker compared to second time when I can last much longer. Some times wife asks me to finish as she is getting sore.
2) Do you ejaculate within one minute of penetration of vagina ? I do not think so. I often complain to my wife saying this is linked to frequency and if we have sex once a week, I will ejaculate quickly. With a medicated condom, it often many more minutes, to the extent that I used the changed the condom after some time to the normal one.
3) Do you have any illness especially Diabetes or Hypertension (High B.P.)? no, I do not have any of these.

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (56 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Orgasm of both partners is important.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for feedback.

The duration of sex differs from person to person. It is the orgasm of both the partners that is important.

You do not have premature ejaculation.

Sex performed second time immediately after first one has delayed ejaculation and so of longer duration.

I do not think you need any treatment. Just try to allay your anxiety.

Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Ashwin Bhandari

Follow up: Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (31 minutes later)

thank you. Just recently, after 16 years of marriage, my wife shared that she never had orgasm (we have 2 children 13 and 9). I find it difficult to believe but this is her reality at this point of time. This she linked to the fact that I do not last as long as she would want me to and she termed this as premature ejaculation. She spoke to some friend who shared that they have sex for more than 15 minutes, as said we never timed, so I do not have any factual info.

I am exploring options to give her confidence that I do care for her and hence trying to seek specialist opinion. We have not had sex for 8 months now, as she is not willing to and also not wanting to come to any specialist, I decided not to force and am giving her space. Any advise or suggestion ?

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
You have to take her in confidence.

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for follow up.
Unfortunately this is true with many women across the society and men never inquire to their partner about orgasm or sexual satisfaction .

Please take her into confidence and consult qualified Psychiatrist for counselling

Taking Sildenafil (Viagra) and Dapoxetin as on demand will help to get good hard sustainable erection and to delay ejaculation and to have enjoyable sex.

Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil..
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Ashwin Bhandari