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What Causes Attraction To The Same Sex?
Question: One time I met a guy who was XXXXXXX his acts are completely like a man not a single sign that show he is attitude is like a girl and I asked him how come you attracted to men and he said that he doesn't see woman attracting just the way a straight man doesn't see a man attracting and he is attracted to muscular guys mostly. I have met another guy in the gym who is XXXXXXX as well but his acts are like a woman and both of them are attracted to the men,why is that? how come a man be attracted to the same sex? I can't understand?? could you clear things up to me?
Note: both if them are adults and at the age 24
Brief Answer:
Different people with different sexual orientation
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Being attracted by the same gender is a psychological disorder. It is considered a sexual orientation or homosexual behavior.
Since ancient times, homosexuality has been known among humans. However, local/religious traditions and laws of different countries have determined its legalization.
Most of the time, such disorders are also associated with other psychological problems such as depression, anxiety, self isolation, adjustment disorder, etc. as they are not welcomed to the society where they live.
Hope it was of help! Let me know if you need more information!
Dr.Albana
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
So you are saying it's certainly disorder?
I believe other doctors say it's a normal thing it's not considered a problem or any kind of disorder, how would you comment on this one?
Brief Answer:
Normal orientation:men attracted by women&vicevers
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
The normal sexual orientation of human beings is being "heterosexual" (being attracted by the opposite sex). Everything out of this is considered as deviation from the normal orientation (disorder).
With regards to what other doctors say, it depends on the school of knowledge they do follow. Different schools accept different concepts regarding the sexual behavior. However, none of them can deny the normal, natural orientation "men attracted by women and vice-versa".
I admit that it is not a disorder that needs treatment. However, all those people who have such orientations (including many of my patients) do have other psychological problems including self-esteem, difficulty in getting in relationships, etc.
Some studies conclude it might be biological; however, childhood development is also important in further life developments and orientations.
Hope it answered to your query!
Dr.Albana
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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