Question: Hi, I have a 22months old son. He niteven saying 1 single word yet. He did made a sound like ba ba. , ma ma , etc, before but after18 months old he not saying it at all, but he babbling some different sound. He know what he want. If hand me the drink cup if he out of water or hand me the can of food to open if he want to eat , take me to where he wants. Before he waive buybuy. Now he doesnt even care. Before he point out his facial face part when I ask ed him, now he not doing that. I can tell by the way he act. He just doesnt wanna listen . Not like he is not understand me. My family and I usually just hand him what he want. Barely ask him to get something to me so I dont know is it the reason why he doesnt know when I start asking him to hand me stuff. And we speak chinese and cantonese at home. Including english cartoon that made 3 languages. Is that the reason why he still havent talk ?his more likely understand chinesd tho. His dr said he doesnt have any sign of autism . He going back to his 2 year check up soon . But I just cant wait to ask the question. Is itnormal for him not to talk cuz we are bi languages. Is it normal for him not to know what I say when I ask to hand me something since I barelyask him to. Cuz everyone just give him what he wants instead of making him say something

He also know how to pick a learning game he wants on the ipad, and he knows how to play. He know how to switch to a differrnt game if he wants to. Everything is fine except he not saying any words and not paying attention sometime. He pay attention when he not doing anything or playing by himself or when he wants to. Sometimes he just doesnt care.

He does response to me when I calk out for him unless he s watching tv. But 8 out of 10, he will run over to me when I call out for him. Even it is from living room to other room. I play like normal kid do like peekaboo. Hide and seek.etc. nd pretty much all normal play . He share food whenever I ask for. He like to play with other kids at play center. He is all finne and normal except speaking and getting stuff when I askedto. But like I said I barely ask him to do thing. From birth till now. Less than 6,7 times that I asked him to hand me something. He does blabbering when he piss. Or wants something

Everytime he wanna climb up to the sofa. He always look at me first before he starts climbing up. Ifi said no. Then he wont. When we go out . Most of the time he will grab my hand to walk with him instead of running on his own. If the step is too high he will hold my hand other wise he will either not going down or slowly move down. He acted pretty normal . Everyone said he act more mature than a normal 2 years old kids. Cuz he understands things still he doesnt mind doing it

And when he going to nap or sleep. I get the water ready and tell going to sleep and he knows that . He will run to his sleeping area in the living room or his room . He climb up and laying down

His 2 years appointment is in september. His dr said we will have it done if he still not talking by then. Shouldnt be a problem to wait till then right?