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What Causes Involuntary Eye Movements, Headaches And Strained Facial Muscles?
Question: My appearance started to be turning gayish first from the month of august 19,2014.I have never had homosexual attraction in my life but my behavior as well as appearance started acquiring gayish characteristics and the ability to concentrate on studies or any activity declined to a great extent.At I first I gradually started to feel less vigour and seemed like dragging around and not interested in anything at all.Primarily the symptoms that started to get pronounced were headaches,inability to speak properly and absolutely involuntary eye movements .I felt strain in my eyes as well as facial muscles.During these days, I started to have orgasm twice or thrice everyday during self masturbation.I felt urges to urinate at the event of slight erection at sight of girls.Thus sexual pleasure got greatly checked.Let me suggest that I was living in slightly depressed state because of not clearing IIT-JEE during those early days of my college which commenced from august(2014)but that was not so severe.
Moreover my penis is very very small when unerect but feel it ok when when erect.Finally i was absolutely normal from every perspective before august 2014.So please also help in improving sexual desires to normal levels and most importantly get rid of a look that often fluctuates to a XXXXXXX
Moreover my penis is very very small when unerect but feel it ok when when erect.Finally i was absolutely normal from every perspective before august 2014.So please also help in improving sexual desires to normal levels and most importantly get rid of a look that often fluctuates to a XXXXXXX
Brief Answer:
Such symptoms can occur due to severe anxiety or probably due to OCD
Detailed Answer:
Hello thanks for asking from HCM for your health related queries
I can understand your concern. First of all I would like to clarify few things. How can you say your appearance has turned garish since August 2014? Have you felt any changes in your appearance? or Have you developed any fear that you might turn into homosexual?
You have mentioned that you never had any homosexual orientation and you are not happy with your ideas of homosexuality. Though not mentioned in question, but probably you are trying to control these bad ideas. (?). These ideas has probably resulted in poor concentration in studies, poor activity, feelings of less vigour, persistent headaches, difficulty in speaking, involuntary twitch like eye movements etc symptoms. These symptoms are most likely occurring due to severe underlying anxiety. Other symptoms you have mentioned can also occur due to anxiety.
As per my opinion you should consult a psychiatrist for re-evaluation. To some extent these repugnant thoughts about homosexuality are related to obsessive ideas of anxiety. With proper medicines your symptoms will improve. Fluoxetine is a good drug for such symptoms and in fact drug of choice. If 40 mg doses are not resulting in improvement then doses can be increased to 60-80 mg per day. The drowsiness you suffered, occurred because of Zapiz. You can discuss with your psychiatrist to reduce its doses in future. As per my opinion Homeopathic medicines will do no good. They cant help to improve symptoms of OCD though there are big claims but these are not supported by research studies. Please consult your psychiatrists again for proper treatment.
Regarding the issue of small penis during flaccid state. It is the size of erected penis and erection which maters during intercourse and not the flaccid size. So please don't take stress regarding that. Take proper treatment of your thoughts and you will improve.
Thanks, Hope this helps you. Please don't hesitate to ask again for more doubts.
Such symptoms can occur due to severe anxiety or probably due to OCD
Detailed Answer:
Hello thanks for asking from HCM for your health related queries
I can understand your concern. First of all I would like to clarify few things. How can you say your appearance has turned garish since August 2014? Have you felt any changes in your appearance? or Have you developed any fear that you might turn into homosexual?
You have mentioned that you never had any homosexual orientation and you are not happy with your ideas of homosexuality. Though not mentioned in question, but probably you are trying to control these bad ideas. (?). These ideas has probably resulted in poor concentration in studies, poor activity, feelings of less vigour, persistent headaches, difficulty in speaking, involuntary twitch like eye movements etc symptoms. These symptoms are most likely occurring due to severe underlying anxiety. Other symptoms you have mentioned can also occur due to anxiety.
As per my opinion you should consult a psychiatrist for re-evaluation. To some extent these repugnant thoughts about homosexuality are related to obsessive ideas of anxiety. With proper medicines your symptoms will improve. Fluoxetine is a good drug for such symptoms and in fact drug of choice. If 40 mg doses are not resulting in improvement then doses can be increased to 60-80 mg per day. The drowsiness you suffered, occurred because of Zapiz. You can discuss with your psychiatrist to reduce its doses in future. As per my opinion Homeopathic medicines will do no good. They cant help to improve symptoms of OCD though there are big claims but these are not supported by research studies. Please consult your psychiatrists again for proper treatment.
Regarding the issue of small penis during flaccid state. It is the size of erected penis and erection which maters during intercourse and not the flaccid size. So please don't take stress regarding that. Take proper treatment of your thoughts and you will improve.
Thanks, Hope this helps you. Please don't hesitate to ask again for more doubts.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Consider all the information provided by me as absolute facts.Till march(2014) i attended coaching institutes I have always been a very calm and composed person .The voluntary behaviour acquired involuntary characteristics only from the month of august .I am a first year university student.My 12th class board% was 87.Moreover forget about controllling homosexual thoughts my mind cannot sustain such thoughts even upon deliberately thinking in that direction.I have erections and find pleasure on thoughts of females only while i masturbate.I have no reasons of anxiety whatsoever but still i become pale faced and mentally drained of energy in a matter of minutes while doing any activity.I don't get erection and even pleasure on sight of even very beautiful girls and my sexual behaviour or even response to an eye wink is very passive.Note often it is only when i masturbate actively that i get erection and orgasm.Sir shall i change the frequency of masturbation say from once everyday to once every 3 days or more so as to normalise my sexual behaviour.Sir I am concerned about the length of my unerect penis because it is practically unresponsive and probably its small length makes me feel gayish and lacking masculinity.I feel increase in length of penis in flaccid state can help me overcome gayish feelings.I am also unable to respond properly non verbally.I sleep and eat well.Please suggest ways to acquire mental vigour.I cannot dare to take those aloepathic medicines since even after quitting zapiz i was completely drained of mental energy moreover throughout the days of my taking of those medicines i didn't have orgasm.Having experienced severe sideeffects ,quitting these medicines resulted in reappearance of original symptoms to the same degree within a matter of days.Only then did I switch to homeopathic medicines which i have been trying till today.Please also suggest do's and don'ts.
Sir emphasise more on suggesting ways to releive problems than on causes since doctor termed it as minor ocd.
Sir emphasise more on suggesting ways to releive problems than on causes since doctor termed it as minor ocd.
Brief Answer:
No need to reduce the frequency of masturbation.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again and thanks for asking a follow up question
First of all I would like to tell you that from your history it appears that some symptoms are due to OCD and this need proper treatment. If you are not ready for medicines then consult a psychologist for Behavioural treatment and relaxation exercises. Talk to any closed ones regarding your problem and this would result in improvement. Few life style changes will reduce the anxiety-
- Sleep for at least 7-8 hours a day.
- Exercise daily for at least half to one hour a day. This would increase vigour in you.
- Take diet rich in proteins and complex carbs and avoid fats. Omega 3 Fatty Acid supplements helps a lot in anxiety and other mental conditions.
- Start taking multivitamine B12 supplements.
- Try to distract yourself by relaxation exercises and yoga. All these changes will reduce your symptoms and will increase your mental relaxation.
Now coming to size in flaccid state. As mentioned earlier also, size has no role in intercourse. Try to control the thoughts that your size is less. Avoid wearing tight underwear's and this would increase size. Milking like exercise of penis after applying a neutral lubricant (also called as jelqing) helps a lot in increasing the size. Use google to learn exact method of jelqing.
No need to reduce the frequency of masturbation. Masturbation has nothing to do with your problems. So no need to worry.
Thanks, if you have more doubts you can ask again.
No need to reduce the frequency of masturbation.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again and thanks for asking a follow up question
First of all I would like to tell you that from your history it appears that some symptoms are due to OCD and this need proper treatment. If you are not ready for medicines then consult a psychologist for Behavioural treatment and relaxation exercises. Talk to any closed ones regarding your problem and this would result in improvement. Few life style changes will reduce the anxiety-
- Sleep for at least 7-8 hours a day.
- Exercise daily for at least half to one hour a day. This would increase vigour in you.
- Take diet rich in proteins and complex carbs and avoid fats. Omega 3 Fatty Acid supplements helps a lot in anxiety and other mental conditions.
- Start taking multivitamine B12 supplements.
- Try to distract yourself by relaxation exercises and yoga. All these changes will reduce your symptoms and will increase your mental relaxation.
Now coming to size in flaccid state. As mentioned earlier also, size has no role in intercourse. Try to control the thoughts that your size is less. Avoid wearing tight underwear's and this would increase size. Milking like exercise of penis after applying a neutral lubricant (also called as jelqing) helps a lot in increasing the size. Use google to learn exact method of jelqing.
No need to reduce the frequency of masturbation. Masturbation has nothing to do with your problems. So no need to worry.
Thanks, if you have more doubts you can ask again.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Sir I had put my concern yesterday in front of u because these characteristics have worsened to an extreme extent in the last few days .I cannot quit studies here for more than a week since I already withdrew from first semester.Today I heard a group of ten students in the mess saying (ye chakka(gay) hi hai) and they are planning to publicly address me as XXXXXXX in the mess.Sir I don't have a close friend who would stand by me in such a situation .Please suggest how to tackle such a situation and avoid such a distress.Sir sorry to ask such things but I really cannot take a break from university studies and can resort to rehabilitate only during the vacations(in the month of may) spanning about 35 days
Sir would u recommend me discussing my problems with the chief warden of the college or some instructor or with the closest friend?
These gayish characteristics(particularly appearance) fluctuates to a great extent.Please suggest ways to behave when the problem is at its worst state like pretending to chew something,eye scratching etc.Sir I am optimistic that after taking the measures suggested by you ,I shall be fine but I cannot keep my composure when I hear voices from surroundings that he appears a XXXXXXX Sir please answer these questions after which I shall close discussion.
Sir would u recommend me discussing my problems with the chief warden of the college or some instructor or with the closest friend?
These gayish characteristics(particularly appearance) fluctuates to a great extent.Please suggest ways to behave when the problem is at its worst state like pretending to chew something,eye scratching etc.Sir I am optimistic that after taking the measures suggested by you ,I shall be fine but I cannot keep my composure when I hear voices from surroundings that he appears a XXXXXXX Sir please answer these questions after which I shall close discussion.
Brief Answer:
Talk to your closest friend or with warden for your problems.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again and thanks for asking a follow up question
See your main problem is your poor confidence. You are absolutely normal and have normal erections and in such case how can anyone say to you that you are XXXXXXX Your main issue is bullying by other students and this has resulted in loss of confidence and you have started feeling inferior. This has resulted in anxiety and you have started feeling that you are XXXXXXX and in reality you are not.
If you have no close friends then best option is to fight for your right. If others are bullying you then talk to your warden. If he is wise enough then he would understand your situation. If any counsellor is available then try to talk with him at college. This would result in improvement of confidence. Try to visit a psychiatrist for your symptoms and you will regain confidence.
Thanks, hope this helps you. Take care. Don't worry about your thoughts, just remember one thing that you are absolutely normal and you will improve with treatment.
Talk to your closest friend or with warden for your problems.
Detailed Answer:
Hello again and thanks for asking a follow up question
See your main problem is your poor confidence. You are absolutely normal and have normal erections and in such case how can anyone say to you that you are XXXXXXX Your main issue is bullying by other students and this has resulted in loss of confidence and you have started feeling inferior. This has resulted in anxiety and you have started feeling that you are XXXXXXX and in reality you are not.
If you have no close friends then best option is to fight for your right. If others are bullying you then talk to your warden. If he is wise enough then he would understand your situation. If any counsellor is available then try to talk with him at college. This would result in improvement of confidence. Try to visit a psychiatrist for your symptoms and you will regain confidence.
Thanks, hope this helps you. Take care. Don't worry about your thoughts, just remember one thing that you are absolutely normal and you will improve with treatment.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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