Hello,
I appreciate your query.
The question you have posed is very tricky, because the decision to go ahead with a
pregnancy or not is entirely the prerogative of the couple.
There are so many emotional, moral, psychological and financial aspects to it.
If the two of you are in a stable relationship, then abortion should not be ideal, unless one/ both of you have strong reasons to think of it.
About the
anemia, that should not be a concern, because anemia is very common, and very much treatable in today's modern world.
About the mode of termination also,
medical abortion works within a very specific time frame. So it is inevitable that you should visit a gynaecologist, estimate the weeks of pregnancy, confirm that pregnancy is inside the
uterus and also get the necessary tests for anemia done.
Mild to moderate anemia does not rule out medical abortion, as it is an equal risk for surgical abortion also.
There is no alternative to getting a check up done for her as soon as possible, in either case, because even if you continue the pregnancy, you should confirm it by
ultrasound, and treat her anemia.
So in both situations, I would advise you to visit a gynecologist at the earliest.
Hope this helped you.