I suspected I was pregnant about 3 weeks ago. I didnt really think anything of it because ive always been on birth control. And we use protection.. At least he says he does, and I trust him. But I should have been paying closer attention. I thought I was pregnant a few weeks ago because i started lactating. And my breast started hurting. And I started to feel sick. Which I didnt really think much about because I don t eat healthily. I work a lot. Three or four days ago I started cramping and bleeding. I was put on birth control because of my dimarhea and endometriosis. So I cant really tell if the cramps are THAT bad. I m used to debilitating periods, where I cant do anything but lay down and pray god makes my death quick. Ive been really tired. I havent had my re fill of depo. So as of today I m about three months late. I havent been having sex for a couple or so months. And I havent had time to go to the doctor. My uncles girlfriend said she had her period for the first three months that she was pregnant, she didnt even know she was pregnant. On the right side of my stomach is hard and under my belly button. I m starting to get a tummy. the cramps are not one sided. It might be my period trying to start.. but what about everything else? The blood is dark brown to red. I m having alot of clots. My stomach is a soft hardness