hello, i am 19 years old, i was born with bladder exstrophy and epispadia. i use a catheter to urinate. i am unsure about my sexual life and urinating of course, my penis was not repaired at all after all these years, it doesnt look normally. i read somewhere that people with epispadia have normal sexual life but my doctor says that that there is no way to repair exstrophy and epispadia. i am really confused about all these things. thanks for replies.