I am a 29 year old female that has only ever received oral sex . I have gotten a few cold sores throughout my life, so Ive always figured I have herpes type 1. A couple years after receiving oral sex the first time at age 19, it would burn a little bit before I urinate. Not when it is coming out or afterwards, just right before the urine comes out. Its not in my vagina, and i dont think the urethra either. I cant tell where it is other than the clitoral area,,could I have contracted herpes 1 down there. Could years of constant stress have caused dysuria of some type? If herpes, will it always be like this? Also, I used to hold my urine for at least an hour years ago when I would drive home from work. Could that have caused permanent damage?