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by des4answer

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33 minutes ago

OK, hard to believe but I had my tubes tied burnt in 07 . I got pregnant in 2011 . I was rushed to surgery to remove eptopic 2 week later at post op I was still pregnant even though my hcg dropped after surgery. I had an extremely high risk pregnancy ended up with an emergency delivery because my placenta stopped working /detached. I hemorrhage during delivery. Almost a month after delivery (baby was fine, she is 3 about to turn 4 now ) I hemorrhage again in two days I went from 16.8 vol to 6.3 . I had emergency dnc. At which time I also had thermal ebalision basically my uterine lining burned so as there could be no implant again. All the while my tubes never came undone until that surgery one tube was removed the other re cut an burnt. I don't understand how I'm pregnant again!!! I was assured it wouldn't be possible. I had all that done because another pregnancy would have a chance of killing me. I am disabled, have many health issues. I shouldn't be pregnant. I don't understand how this is happening or what I should do.

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by DreamJoyHope_R

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31 minutes ago

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Wow. 

That's crazy. Call your OBGYN in the morning. Sounds like a d&c and then a hysterectomy would be your best bet!

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by des4answer

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27 minutes ago

I can't get approved for hysterectomy; ( because of my other health issues my kidney doctor won't sign off. Will they do a dnc with me pregnant?

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by des4answer

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19 minutes ago

Abortion is not a option for me; ( I'm married mom of 3 . All my pregnancy have been high risk an very traumatic. I am just so scared. I feel horrible because a baby is always a blessing. But there are so many desperate to have a child, an here I've done almost everything not to an still became pregnant. I feel so guilty for not being happy.

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by DreamJoyHope_R

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If you are going to risk your life again, then so be it. That is entirely your choice. I would never risk leaving my children without a mother, but that's me. 

Someone else's struggles have nothing to do with your life. I dealt with infertility for 7 years, we actually ended up adopting our youngest. I would never expect you to risk your life because I couldn't get pregnant for so long. 

In the end, this is your choice. My advice would be to call your physician in the morning. They will know best. 

After the end of this pregnancy, however it ends, I would push hard for something permanent, like a total hysterectomy. The risks of that one time surgery are less, I would think, then the risk of continuing to get pregnant. 

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