Hello
I share your concern, i will try to help you out in best possible way.
Looking at your description this could be STI or infected ulcer may be due to trauma during rough sex or
allergic reaction.
I would like further informationto help you better
Your age and relevant medical history like
diabetes or other metabolic disease
Any recent exposure to unprotected sex?
You should ask your doctor for few investigations to confirm the diagnosis like Urine culture and sensitivity test as well as pus culture of the discharge from the rash
you can rule out the possibility of HIV by an
ELISA test after a window period of 3 to 6 months about which your doctor knows.
Apart from.this blood sugar fasting and post prandial and Blood for CBC and
liver function test are also advisable.
Maintain good hygiene
Wash and clean it with antiseptic solution or soap
You can apply antiseptic or antibacterial ointment like
mupirocin ointment externally on bumps.
Use condom during sex
Hope this answers your question please feel free to ask for more clarification
Thanks and regards