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Depression After Death, Unable To Stay Out For Long. Why?

Hi, My mother-in-law still grieves for her deceased husband who passed away 11 years ago. I don't know if this is related. Recently when she leaves her home (she lives with her daughter and family) no sooner she arrives at a family function or visit, she wants to leave to return home. Her granddaughter recently was married and as soon as she could, she left the wedding reception. Is this just part of growing old, she is 81, or part of depression. We hardly hear from her. She doesn't call or visit.
Wed, 22 May 2013
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Psychiatrist,  's  Response
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In normal situation grief after death of a near one remains for about 6 months and if it get prolonged then it may lead to pathological grief or may be depressive disorder. Depression is a common reason for prolonged grief. She is showing withdrawn behavior and poor social interaction, most likely these symptoms are due to depression. I would advise you to take her to a Psychiatrist for expert opinion. Medicines like SSRI and SNRI are very useful. Cognitive therapy is also useful.

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Psychiatrist,  Dr. Ashish Mittal's  Response
Hello,
welcome to Healthcare Magic.

The only apparent complaint in your query, that your mother in law avoid social situation. This kind of behavior can several conditions like:
-Inter personal issues with family members
-Anxiety and depression
-Dementia
-Behavioral change secondary to some medical condition.

If symptoms are causing problem in her personal and social life, then it is better to get her evaluated by psychiatrist.

Wish you good health and all the best.

Regards,
Dr Ashish Kumar Mittal
www.99doctor.com
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Depression After Death, Unable To Stay Out For Long. Why?

Hello Welcome to HCM In normal situation grief after death of a near one remains for about 6 months and if it get prolonged then it may lead to pathological grief or may be depressive disorder. Depression is a common reason for prolonged grief. She is showing withdrawn behavior and poor social interaction, most likely these symptoms are due to depression. I would advise you to take her to a Psychiatrist for expert opinion. Medicines like SSRI and SNRI are very useful. Cognitive therapy is also useful. Thanks