i am suffering from erectile dysfunction for which i seek help. I am basically bisexual in nature and is having erection problem when trying to do sex with wife. For male partners i am having no such issues. I am 36 yrs old, and had been fairly doing well with mild hypertension .. How do i cure this I am having normal erections in night and morning. Only when sleeping with wife i cant get arousal. there is no relationship problems and i had been doing sex with her even 15 days before. Suddenly it stopped.