I was bitten by a black widow spider one year ago, I went to the emergency room but they did not give me antivenom because they said I waited too long to come in, my blood presser which is normally in range had spiked very high, they said I could die and should be admitted but it would be four hours before a Dr would see me. I figured I didn't want to die in the er waiting room so I went home. I was pretty sick for three days and weak for awhile after that. I started losing weight and haven't had muck of an appetite since have you ever heard of this before ps I feel fine now