My husband is 65 and over the last few years I have noticed a tremor in his fingers when he extends his hands. Recently he started to do a movement which I believe looks like pill rolling. He has been under extreme pressure over the last 3 years , but retired at christmas and is actively employed with life without work. Leaving work has not been a problem to him, but rather a relief. The reason that I am concerned is that he will not have any medical checks and will not talk of health issues.He is also drinking large tumblers of dilute coffee constantly during the day. His memory has failed considerably over the last year. He is losing things constantly, but is aggravated if I direct him. He has always had a positive nature and that hasn t changed except he won t allow any discussions of this nature. He has always been untidy in his personal areas and has never properly attended to health or teeth issues, although he encourages his family to do so. Contrary to what it may seem he has always been an intelligent man and has always had a responsible job.