I m 53 and had sex with a 29 year old gal, I did have a slight orgasim about 6 - 8 weeks ago she was also having sex with a 60 year old guy at the same time. I don t ejaculate much, he had a prostate removal, and uses a pump. What are the odds either of us has gotten her pregnant? She says she is having money troubles, also she has 3 kids and doesn t want any more. I am seeing a lot of red flags here one I think here tubes may be tied. Two I think a pregnancy test should be done. Then if positive DNA test. If everything points to me I would like to seek alternatives like adoption etc... rather than abortion, but it is her decision not mine, If we have to go for the abortion what would you suggest for 2 people stressed money wise in Houston TX? I want to do the right thing but feel like I am being scammed.