Hi i am 28 year old male and about a year ago tore meatus downward during sex i tried fixing with mucprocin two percent ointment i had and it didn t help i didn t have insurance and was embarrassed so i avoided doctor however in the last three months has grown increasingly painful it never bled but lately every time i get An erection the tear seems to be growing and hardly get thru a night without getting am erection in my sleep and getting more painful have to put band aid over it just to sleep now its not infected have used almost 3 tubes of neosporin pain relief cream in last 4 months but tear opens every time i pee and haven t seen blood once what should i do and what can i expect when going to doc