I Had A Reversible Colostomy In Sept, The Surgery Was

I had a reversible colostomy in Sept, the surgery was unsuccessful. My stomach is deeply inverted and oblong in sag
Have. The ET nurse has not been able to fit me properly with a skin barrier/pouch in system which leads to continual blowouts, blistering and sore skin. I am also having fully formed bowel movements out my butt as well as movements in my pouch. I have been told I have to wait 3-4 months for a reversal!!! My personal and professional life has been desomated.