I have been to rheumatologist, Medical doctor, bone specialist, gynecologist. I have had blood work and exrays. I am 41 years old and physically feel 80. Started with pain in my knees which grind when bend. Had a hysterectomy in feb And decided that mabye losing weight would help my pain. Lost 25 ponds and the more I lose the worse I feel. Recently new symptoms and consistant. Wake at night with one or both arms completely numb "dead" from shoulder to fingers and when straightening out my elbows its like a knife in them. Wrists, ankles hips basically anywhere there is a joint is constantly stiff. Have had stiff neck for 3 weeks now. Cant even turn head in car completely to see oncoming traffic. Only answer I can get from simple hand exrays is that I have some arthritis. If I get on the floor I need help getting up. My quality of life according to what I know I am capable of non existant. I just wish I knew what to do. This started approximately 10 years ago so understandably I am at least extremely frustrated.