my daughter had her ear pierced in the same spot as last time... its been about 9 weeks .... so I was cleaning them and saw this big white bump beside the piercing on the back ear lob. so took it out cleaned it and the front started bleeding when I put it back in ,then it tried to come out the bump instead of The whole. but took it out retried and it when in... what should I do . its red,bleeding a little, a little swollen, and has a big white bump