Hi, I was giving my grandson a bath last night and he put his finger in his anus. I asked him who did that to him and he said, "Ms. Chrissy." She is a daycare provider at his school. Should I be concerned? He and our daughter just moved into an apartment after 3 years of living with us. He 2 1/2. His behavior has been pretty awful, tantrums, crying, angry, not wanting to sleep alone..