Ok, so I m not a female. But this is kind of a female related question. I have been dating this girl I met online for about 3 months. We have been sexually active for one month. Having unprotected sex because she is on birth control implant. We did the usual questions before being intimate (# partners, std s ext). She claimed that she had no STD’s and had regular check-ups. I was tested after my last girlfriend (full panel) and was celibate until this current girl. All were negative and I have never had any kind of std before. Anyway, I started noticing the tip of my penis (around the urethra ) is very red and swollen. Not painful but defiantly noticeable. There is however a constant feeling of pressure on the area. Along with general discomfort. This has been going on for about a week. I told her about it and she immediately broke out crying. She tells me that she had cervical cancer due to HPV a few years ago. Had surgery and last pap-smear about 6 months ago came out clean. I was also informed of her true number of sexual partners at that time. Let’s just say it was allot! Of course she didn t tell me because she thought I might run the other way. Probably because I have only been with a few. I asked her about other STD s and she told me that she didn’t have any. At this point I don’t believe anything she tells me so that’s not saying allot. She said that she has never had a blood test done for HSV/ HIV and refuses to get one because she is afraid of blood/ needles. I could go to my doctor and get another blood test but at this point if I got anything it probably wouldn t show up yet. I pretty much figure that I have HPV but none of the symptoms I find online fit my condition. If I do go to the doctor, what should I have them test for. I am currently back in grad school and have no insurance. I don’t want to make this any more expensive than it has to be. I can’t ask my “girlfriend” any more questions on the matter because it was a traumatic experience, it is too painful to remember. She did happen to say she was sorry. I have never had this issue before so I doubt it is due to my laundry detergent or boxer briefs. Honestly I just want to break things off with this girl because of her dishonestly. But I also don’t want to spread it to anyone else and cause someone I care about to get cervical cancer. If I did get HPV, is there anything I can do to get rid of the virus. I am a healthy male with good immune system . If I have to stay out of the dating scene for awhile that would be ok. Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.