Hello thanks for asking from HCM for your health related queries I can understand your concern. The problem like passage of sticking fluid through urine stream occurs commonly in some youngsters. Poor sexual education and abnormal cultural beliefs are the reasons for these complaints. First of all I d like to tell you that during defecation due to pressure on prostrate glands it is normal to pass some sticky fluid through urine and there should be no worries for that. Passage of this fluid would not cause any effects on your health. This is perfectly normal thing and try not to give attention on that. Please divert your attention from that and remember one thing that this cant be the cause of the joint pains and tiredness you are having. All these symptoms are psychosomatic and are called as Dhat Syndrome. If you remain dissatisfied even after this then visit a psychiatrist for help. Medicines like Paroxeitne, Fluoxetine etc can help to reduce these anxieties associate with the symptoms. Visit a doctor for help. Thanks, I hope this helps you. Take care Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi, Psychiatrist.