My 24 year old son was diagnosed with bipolar 3 months ago. Up until the age of 18 he was hardworking, personable, athletic and good at school (he even had a football scholarship to a Division I college but only stayed there 3 days and left). It’s been a rollercoaster since then. We got him to a psychologist about 5 months ago and he was the first to suggest he might be bipolar after several sessions and hearing about his history for the last 7 years. He has been in and out of school and jobs never quite finishing any of them. He has addiction problems with marijuana, alcohol and zanax. He has been in several car accidents and been arrested 4 times for drug possession (small amounts). He didn’t go to prison but was court ordered to rehab for 6 months when he was 19 and put on probation. He starts using again soon after his probation ends (there are mandatory drug screenings when on probation). Since then, he has started school or started a job but he always ends up quitting (anxiety is the reason he gives). He recently came back to live with us (his parents) and we took him the psychologist who thought he might be bipolar and sent us to a psychiatrist for evaluation. We brought him to a large practice and the first appointment he could get was with the Advanced Registered Nurse Practitioner, with the meds prescribed under the psychiatrist. He is on the following medicines right now:
ROPINIROLE HCL 0.5 MG I tablet at bedtime (restless leg syndrome)
SERTRALINE HCL 100 MG 1.5 tablets each morning
LAMOTRIGINE 100 MG 1 tablet at bedtime
BUSPIRONE HCL 5 MG 1 tablet in morning and 1 tablet at bedtime
I monitor his medicines so I know he is taking them but It's difficult to know if the meds are working because of the drinking, pot, etc. He recently had another car accident and pot was found in his car so he was arrested but bailed out on a misdemeanor. He was at his lowest point after that and I was worried about suicide (he wouldn't attend Christmas family events) so we convinced him to go to a dual diagnosis rehab facility a few hours from our home. He has been there less than a week but is already calling me to say it’s not the right place for him; says it's just drug addicts and not mental health related. He had a seizure the first night there and spent the first 3 days in the hospital for detox and the neurologist said the seizure was from zanax which he took in large amounts but had stopped taking about 5 days before going to rehab.
I am striving to do the right thing to help my son and not sure if this latest attempt is right or another type of therapy or rehab would be better. I chose this one since it said dual diagnosis since he needs to get clean from his addictions but also get his bipolar accurately diagnosed and treated appropriately.
I would greatly appreciate your insight.