thank you. I have a nephew 30 yrs old that was raised by my parents. His mom past with MS, soon after he turned 6. His father ran with drugs shortly after his wife died, my parents adopted him at age 2. He has a slight tick, and has lost all the male role models in his life. He has been with only my father after my mom past in 2000. He was 15 then. now my dad resides with my husband and I. he is 86 yrs.old. as a child he was on ridlin but my mom stop it for some reason soon after he was prescribed. Where should I look for help him with living skills, he did work as a bagger at the local store for six years. He now hasn t worked in two years, my father continues to help him with basic finances . He love gaming, and has a room that looks as if a young teen lives there, very messy and unorganized . He is a big guy, with a very compassionate. where can I fine help for him. we live in Virginia Beach, Va. thank you