Hi..
Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC..
I have gone through your query and can understand your concern..
As per your complain it seems that due to infection there is swelling leading to expansion of
soft tissue and sticking of the back of earring in the
earlobe..
I would suggest you to consult a general physician and he can apply an anaesthetic get over the earlobe and remove the rubber backing..
He can also advise you to apply an antibiotic and
steroid ointment over the earlobe for relief from infection and inflammation..
You can also be advised to take a short course of antibiotics and painkillers..
Do cool compresses over the ear lobes..
If possible wear gold or plastic earrings as they are made of inert metal and will not cause
allergic reaction and also prevent probablity of infection and inflammation..
Hope this information helps..
Thanks and regards.
Dr.Honey Nandwani Arora.