impaird bowel/urinary/sexual function after injury. Help please.
as stated above in the subject heading I have all of these problems. I'm trying to get a second opinion on behalf of my doctors choice getting mri of my genital rectal area. I'm going to be very descriptive in my message in hopes to solve my problem so bare with me. I had an injury about a year ago and I'm still having problems. I've been to multiple doctors with multiple tests and they're still no conclusive answers. tests such as cat scans MRI and physical examination of the rectum with no answer. I was going mountain biking and I crashed on the bike frame on my groin and I felt a pop. But i thought nothing of it and walked it off. ( im now going to be semi explicit about my intimate relations with my partner). during intercourse i felt that same "pop" in left side in my perineum and felt a horrible pain in my left testicle shooting down my leg and in my lower left abdominal/sigmoid area. this immediately stopped my erection and my genitalia shrunk drastically. i panicked and thought i may have ruptured something. went to the hospital that day and had an ultrasound on my testicles. they were still getting blood. so i thought nothing of it. i did a self rectal exam and found a small pea sized green lump around my perineum/anal area, thought it might be a hemmroid. but it just got worse over time. so here i am a year later with no answers. since this episode it has triggered major depression and psychological symptoms which im proud to say have subsided tremendously. but im now single because of the incident. so here are the tests that ive been through: cat scan, to see for any internal bleeding or hernia/ results negative. mri of spine /results nerves are completely unharmed. plenty of rectal exams/ results feels normal and same with prostate. checked for ininguil hernia/ no hernia except some minor swelling in spermatic cord. ultrasound of bladder/ results slight urine retention which is abnormal for my age given no enlarged prostate. physical exam and probing of abdominal area/ results no feelings of protruding organs. multiple blood tests/ results normal. Here are the symptoms im having to this day/ throbbing pain in left abdominal/ left testicle that radiates down my inner left leg. muscle spasms in lower left abdominal/ left inner leg/ rectal area/ bladder/ perineum/ penis. urinary dysfunction- hard to push out last bit of urine. bowel dysfunction- hard to pass stool, and when i do, the first part is very dry and lumpy and always has a curve fallowed by abnormaly long stool as in about two feet long. scrotum is tight and cold and is relieved once unrinary/bowel evacuation is complete. which my scrotum was always loose and comfortable before the injury. a feeling of rectal fullness even after defacation. feeling as if something is hanging out but nothing is. my diet is very healthy and full of water and fiber, so constipation is not the problem. feces looks healthy but looks like it gets stuck in a certain part of the sigmoid. There is clearly something that isn't working and i need to find out what happened. hopefully after reading this large description I hope you can have a certain condition in mind. my doctor has giving me the choice of either a colonoscopy or MRI of pelvic region. which is the best choice? which specialist will be most helpful? can you think anything that all these problems could be? like a bowel obstruction, rectal prolapse, collapsed bowel/bladder? keep in mind when the injury (pop) occurred i was in a squatting position with erectile blood putting quite a bit of pressure on my pelvic floor. so what in the world happened to me? im desperate for answers. thanks for reading and the advice.