Hi, thank you for using health care magic. I can understand your concern. I am not aware of herbal medicine but i can suggest some other methods for curing early ejaculation. Use condom having gel which can reduce excessive sensation from top of the penis(glans penis). There are techniques called start -stop technique , and squeeze technique which can offer you more control over ejaculation. This will delay ejaculation over time. This techniques works by changing the conditional reflex of early ejaculation. Medicine like sertraline , escitalopram,peroxatine, clomipramine are also helpful in delaying ejaculation , this medicines are usally prescribed by psychiatrist for treatment of depression but for your condition they are also useful. For erectile dysfunction If you have morning spontaneous erection then use sensate focus training. If you do not have morning spontaneous erection then consult doctor preferably psychiatrist. Stopping smoking would definitely help in improving your health gradually which can also reflect in sexual health. I would suggest you to consult psychiatrist for further help if needed. Psychiatrist can also help you out through behavioral therapy in your condition. I hope this will help you. Regards.