I have a small flap of skin right below the vagina, that partially covers the opening when the hole is stretched. It is not inside, but outside the vagina. During my first attempt to have sex with my husband, the skin tore, and the doctors recommended a wait period for it to heal. Now its been a month, and the skin is healed, but everytime I attempt sex, the skin stretches/tears again, causing pain. Can you please recommend a way to overcome this problem?