Hello Maddie and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query.
I understand that you are quite stressed out and feeling desperate in this situation. Firstly, I would advise you to stay calm, because only if you stay calm you will be able to make the right decisions. Secondly, I would like to let you know that if you need to have an
abortion, then it must be done by a medical person in a safe place. Otherwise, it can cause infections and complications, which can even be life-threatening. Thirdly, you will definitely need the help of an adult both for an emotional support during this time of crisis as well as for legal purposes.
I can understand that it is very embarrassing or even terrifying to tell your parents. If so, you can get the help of some other adult relative or friend to help you and support you through this whole process. If you have no one, then you can approach the Child Services in your place and they will be able to help and guide you.
So, please stay calm, definitely get the help of an adult and NEVER resort to any non-medical or unsafe method of abortion.
Wish you all the best.
Regards,
Dr. Sheeba Stephen