ystrday we tried anal for 1st time, and just within few seconds i tried to insert ( just around an inch went inside ) she was paining and i stoped it . she noticed that there is a bleeding a bit , and in potty also she noticed blood .. what should be done now ? she is paining ? is it normal , can u suggest any medicine which can relax her pain , although the bleeding was bit , how it can be stoped completely??