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YOUR WIFE'S ULCERS SHOULD BE EXAMINED PROPERLY FIRST, THEN YOU CAN ONLY KNOW THE CAUSE. TO RELEIVE FROM ULCERS SHE CAN APPLY ANAESTETIC GELS, TAKE SOME COTICOSTEROIDS AND ALSO MULTIVITAMINS SHOULD BE STARTED . IT IS NOT NECESSARY THAT SHE HAS DEVELOPED SORES BECAUSE OF ORAL SEX. I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO TAKE HER TO DENTIST FOR HER EXAMINATION AND YOU SHOULD ALSO TAKE CARE THAT SHE SHOULD NOT BE INFECTED BY YOUR HERPES INFECTION..
HOPE IT HELPS..

Hi,
Welcome to HCM forum,
Oral sex is NOT safe sex.
You are likely to have open sores and exposure to blood in your mouth. Not to mention your mouth can be a breeding ground for bad bacteria.
Consult dentist for examination of your wife's oral ulcers.
Maintain oral hygiene and use antiseptic mouthwash daily.
Take Care

Hello,

Thanks for sharing your concern in HCM,

The ulcer in the mouth may not be related to the herpes infection...

As you got herpes infection in childhood so whenever your immunity will break down you will be infected....

But the ulcer has to be diagnosed clinically...

You can apply Dologel CT For 3-4 times/day...

That ulcer may be apthous also...

Get your proper treatment by Dentist....

Wish your wife good health...

hi there
thank you for writing in HCM forum
causes of mouth ulcers can be many from stress to gastric trouble
i would advice you to visit a dentist for clinical examination for ulcers .
meanwhile she can use anesthetic lotion for local application
avoid spicy food
use of antibacterial mouthwash 3 times a day
start with vitamin b12 supplements for fast healing
you should always take care in future that in active phase of herpes , be careful in kissing or oral sex.
take care
regards

hello
oral ulcers may be due to variety of reasons including stree , gastric upset ,vitamin deficiency ,poor oral hygiene,bacterial or viral infection etc etc
so what i would suggest is that you pay a visit to your dentist and get the examination done to find out the cause of ulcers and accordingly get treated
well having said that , i would also like to mention that oral sex is not a safe sided one , and beside when you are having herpes infection , safety is even more compromised
now , in the mean while your wife can do following
1.luke warm saline rinses 4-6 times daily
2.omnacortil 10 mg twice daily for 3 days
3.lactovit one tablet daily for atleast 10 days a month for 6 months
4.hexigel to be applied at the ulcer site after every rinse
5.also fruits rich in vitamin c ,do help
best of luck

Dear friend.

Thanks for sharing your concern.

It is not correct to diagnose oral ulcers with out proper clinical evaluation.Also you have not mentioned which part of mouth is affected,whether the floor or roof?

It could be simple apthous ulcers too.How do you know it is herpes infectionTherefore i would suggest your wife to go for a clinical examination by the dentist.

Meanwhile maintain good oral hygiene.

Hope it helps.

Thanks.

Take care.

Hello,

Thanks for posting your query.

Ulcers inside mouth has to be evaluated clinically by a dentist to rule out the cause of such lesion.

Its not necessary that ulcers occured after oral sex.

To rule out the chance of lesion being herpetic in nature,get clinical check-up done.

Take steroids as well as vitamin becosules.

Maintain oral hygiene well.

Hope this helps.