What Causes A Droopy Eye Lid With Pain In The Eye And Numbness In Hand?

I've been experiencing a droopy eye lid, starts with a pain behind my right eye that then makes my eye sit blurry, then the eyelid starts to droop slightly, my mouth feels like I'm going to drool. I then get a pain in my shoulder and my muscles there are like rocks they are so hard, I get numbness in the arm and a tingly sensation in my shoulder like someone is scratching it. I feel really weak on that side after. This comes and goes, can be one day or two weeks. I'm 33 year old female