My sweetheart is dealing with reaccurring prostatitis. I feel a lot of blame because for ten years we had sex at least 7 times in one evening. No anal, clean ready for you, not 3minute man. A man who waited, lasted, due to my past. We were insatiable. Now. He , his heart is hurting from symptoms. Pain. Worry of Not pleasing his lady. Our libido at 45-55 was incredible. Now he has to pay? Please help me say the right things, ok with less, Yet we set a standard above, beyond norm.