Hallow Dear,
I do empathize your feelings in such situations.
Miscarriages happening so early in the
pregnancy, though are due to many reasons, the commonest cause at this stage of pregnancy is chromosomal abnormalities in the baby. In first event, it seems your baby was formed and then the foetal heart stopped while second time it seems that you had
blighted ovum pregnancy wherein there is
gestational sac without embryo in it.
Immediately after
abortion, chromosomal study of the abortus might have given us some clue about the cause of abortion. However, now we cannot go back. Now my advice to you is to get the chromosomal study of both of you done. It might give us some clue as to any attention is required to either or both of you.
It is a best option to consult some Foetal medicine consultant in this issue. In Bangalore, you may contact Dr. Hema Divekar who is a very senior and talented Gynaecologist who can definitely guide you in this matter. You can quote my reference to her.
Meanwhile, please have healthy diet, consume daily
Folic acid which will help the healthy growth of the baby.
I hope this helps you.
Dr. Nishikant Shrotri