Hello and Welcome to Ask A Doctor service. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. Yes, you have done right measures to relieve her pain but it is not enough alone as if she has infection then she needs medication to reduce infection. In that case she should be checked clinically and for this you should consult an Emergency room and get her checked. An Otoscopic examination can be done for confirmation. She can be advised a course of oral antibiotics and anti inflammatory painkillers like Motrin and along with it antibiotic ear drops can be advised. If needed manual cleaning of ear can be done professionally. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.