Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Yes there is definitely possible that you should live normal life and make relation with girls. I had gone through your query and i would like to suggest you that as i found you had a girlfriend and you really want to be a normal person and live your life normal. Here i would suggest you that you should spend more time to girlfriends and also be sexually active with her. Sexually active with your girlfriend will help you for attracts towards girls and also will have stronger sexual feelings to the girls. For more i would suggest you that when go for sex with your girlfriend you should go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati