hi, my husband was 60 in dec, has had erectile dysfuntion for about a yr, wont talk about it with a dr, is now emotionally distant with me and has talked of leaving for a while to see if he misses all he has he says, says this has been coming on for a long time, feels life passing him by says no woman involved, we got viagra but the love making is just so emotionless,please what can i do to help