My name is Cathy and I am 61. I had Major Back Surgery 1 year ago this past January to fix a severe 70 degree curve due to Scoliosis my curve was in my waiste so I don t bend at the waiste anymore I know I did the right thing in having the Surgery but I feel like I am not the same person I was before the Surgery because this has been a big life style change for me I have had to learn to do things a lot different then the way I did before there are times when I really feel down I feel like this is not me where did I go. The only people I can talk to about this is my Friends because my Husband thinks that I should not of had the Surgery so he dosen t ever want to talk about it but my Back Doctor told me if I didn t have the Surgery eventually the Curve would get worse and I would end up in a wheelchair and that s not what I wanted for myself and I would not want my Husband to have to take care of me like that. I have been having a hard time dealing with this is there some one who can help me Please.