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Recently my girlfriend and I tried having anal sex . While we were trying i could not get anything past the tip of my penis inserted. we used lubricated condoms and ky. It seems like after i got the tip of my penis in and went to push the rest in slowly my penis would lose erection and go soft. what causes this?
it seems you are doing it for the first time. it do happens for the first couple of times and later it will be smooth. First time she may get pain also including bleeding. You are loosing the erection because of fear and frustration. you must do enough foreplay to get the girl arosed and natural librication will appear in the passage. try to avoid KY etc. but condoms are must.
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Why My Penis Loses Erection After Few Inserts ?
it seems you are doing it for the first time. it do happens for the first couple of times and later it will be smooth. First time she may get pain also including bleeding. You are loosing the erection because of fear and frustration. you must do enough foreplay to get the girl arosed and natural librication will appear in the passage. try to avoid KY etc. but condoms are must.