HI Thank for asking to HCM If I would be your wife s doctor then I would never advise both of you for abortion, if you have officially married couple and do not have any problem carrying the child, then this is not at all advisable from any angle, and on medical ground it is highly risky, there is enough chances of sterility, and other complication too, this is not the routine surgical procedure, it is just only taken in hand in certain medical conditions where the life and the future of kid are matters, think about the couples those have no kids and they are trying like any thing for pregnancy, in this way you are lucky going to have child, take care and forget this absurd idea, have nice baby.