Question: Hi my husband has not been formally diagnosed with diabetes. He refuses to see a doctor so I will ask. 2 yrs ago I noticed that he was urinating more than normal his thirst has increased. I took his blood levels as my father in law had a machine to do so and the results were 348. Since then he does not take care of him self his vision is very poor his cuts don't heal fast, and now for a year he has had trouble with his penis. It has lots of cuts on it it's really red it almost looks like the circulation on the top of head is being cut off. He can not last more than 5 min in intercourse not sure if he is in pain at the moment or what. At times he has white discharge and now he has no lubrication he is not circumcised so when he pulled the skin back to urin it hurts him because it's so dry. He has lost so much weight within 1 year and is still loseing. What can you tell me about his condition or what illness does he represents?