If an anesthesiologist proceeds with an epidural incorrectly during labor, can it cause nerve damage that would make it hard, if not impossible, to reach orgasm? I m 25 years old and since I had my son 6 months ago, I haven t been able to have an orgasm and I m wondering if the epidural had anything to do with it. Sex isn t painful it feels normal but nothing feels as good. I also tore in two spots and two layers because they didn t do an episiotomy and i had no stitches afterwards but everything healed correctly with no infections.