Hi and thanks for the query, At this stage, determining the sex of the fetus is really possible, but shall be very invasive, with you of a technique to collect samples inside the womb. However, at a much later stage, this is far easier with use of simple ultrasound techniques. The abortion option should be carefully considered, considering the after affects of abortion that could be immediate or long term, at times life lasting. I suggest you take a pregnancy test and consult your gynecologist for proper addressing of your concerns. Thanks and hope this helps, Luchuo, MD.