Hi there ~
I understand your concern.
Anastrozole is a steroid that is not recommended for body building, though it is often misused for the same. You may have
infertility, shrunken testicles, poor libido, and loss of erections with chronic use of this medication. The urge to masturbate is a normal physiological process. It should not come in the way of your married life in the future. It would benefit for you to have good foreplay and afterplay, and not just intercourse. If you need further information you might benefit from seeing a
sexologist or reading up more on foreplay. Women like foreplay and rarely do they say that sex is not satisfying. It might help, to take your wife with you to a sexologist for therapy or to a psychotherapist for counseling regarding intercourse and also courting, to build the relationship.
Firstly you might need to consult an
psychiatrist to find out if you have any difficulties in your libido or have other mental health concerns like
depression. Otherwise, you have a very common problem of
erectile dysfunction and / or
premature ejaculation and it can be easily treated with medications available during this time. The class of medication is called phosphodiesterase 5 inhibitors (PDE5Inh) selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors and it also helps with decreased libido which is a result of depression if you are going through one. I advise you to consult with a qualified psychiatrist who might be able to help in this regard. I hope this helps.
Take care and have a lovely day!