I'm a heavy girl who fell down three icy, slippery stairs on my bum. I'm 42 now and I chipped my tail bone long time ago when I was 14yrs old..I'm in a lot of pain on my tail bone, I'm pretty sure it's not broke but definitely hurts to move, couch,sneeze,etc.. I also have spina bifida and bowel problems...so I'm in pain unless I lay on my sides or my tummy..it wakes me up in the middle of the night screaming in pain.. What can I do to heal properly, and how long is it going to be hurting?