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What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile Dysfunction: Sir, I am 38 yrs and married for the past 8 yrs. Bcuz of my job style, i stay separated from my wife and we stay together for an average of 30-45 days in a year.Till now I always had a proper erection and my erection lasts for long. Even I do masturbate (when alone, by seeing pronographic material)regularly. Recently I came across another woman (wife of my friend), who looks very gorgeous and attractive than my wife, and she was sharing accommodation with me.I had a lot of inclination towards her and I was always having an erection while talking with her, or while looking at her. I proposed her for sex, but she never agreed upon. In another occassion, she was traveling with me in a long distance train journey and we sat close to each other and talked for the whole night and I had constant erection for more than 4 hrs. The very next day,she went to her home and I reached my home and when I tried to have intercourse with my wife, I found difficulties in erection which I had never faced earlier.My wife too was shocked and four days have passed, I am unable to have a proper erection. Please help me.

Is it because of

1. I had an erection for prolonged duration in the train?

2. Or I am inclined to some other woman who is beautiful and gorgeous than my wife ?

3. Or I do excessive masturbation?
Mon, 2 Feb 2015
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Psychiatrist 's  Response
Hello,

I can understand your concern.

It is just due to anxiety.

No prolong erection or masturbation is responsible for erection dysfunction.
Your inclination and attraction to other female is responsible for such problem. AS you mentioned that after passing time with her in train ,next day you tried with wife. It is your mental status of attraction towards that lady whcih has not allowed your mind to arouse completely with your wife. This problem is temporary. You can do normal sex soon. Try some different techniques of foreplay and with different atmosphere with your wife.Also try to be faithful to her.

Regards,
Hope I have answered your query satisfactorily.
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What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

Hello, I can understand your concern. It is just due to anxiety. No prolong erection or masturbation is responsible for erection dysfunction. Your inclination and attraction to other female is responsible for such problem. AS you mentioned that after passing time with her in train ,next day you tried with wife. It is your mental status of attraction towards that lady whcih has not allowed your mind to arouse completely with your wife. This problem is temporary. You can do normal sex soon. Try some different techniques of foreplay and with different atmosphere with your wife.Also try to be faithful to her. Regards, Hope I have answered your query satisfactorily. http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki